Spouses learn military life through Heart Link Published Oct. 9, 2009 Airman and Family Readiness Center TINKER AIR FORCE BASE, Okla. -- Are you a military spouse who has been "married" to the military for 5 years or less? Does your spouse use strange acronyms that you don't understand? When they are in uniform and with a group of other military members do they stand up when specific people walk into a room? Why do they salute a car or stop when the national anthem is played at the end of the day? If you find the military way of life confusing, plan to attend Heart Link Oct. 27. It's a fun-filled day of activities that teaches you why your spouse acts the way they do while in uniform. Activities cover a variety of topics, "You and the Air Force -- Where You Fit In," "Introduction to the Air Force Family" and "Communicating Within the Air Force," to name a few. Spouses also learn they are the heart of the Air Force and play a vital role in decisions their spouses make concerning reenlisting. "The goal of Heart Link is to strengthen military families through knowledge about military programs, agencies and the mission. This enhances overall mission-readiness," said Rickie Smith, Tinker Airman and Family Readiness Center director. The day kicks off at 9 a.m. with an ice-breaker game of bingo. Shortly after the ice breaker, 72nd Air Base Wing Commander Col. Allen Jamerson provides an overview of the broad mission at Tinker. This is the first opportunity for many spouses to see and really understand the importance of Tinker Air Force Base. The commander also takes time to answer any questions the spouse may have. The Airman and Family Readiness Center provides both breakfast and lunch. Lunchtime provides attendees the opportunity to share experiences, and to continue to learn more about their roles as a military spouse. This is a time when spouses can share contact information and start making "lasting friendships." Tinker's Heart Link program also incorporates the "Tough Talk" video, which addresses the issue of death or critical injury within a family. As the day comes to an end, each participant is presented a graduation certificate and coin by the 72nd ABW commander, who reminds the group of their vital importance to the mission. "Heart Link is typically held quarterly on Tuesdays, and we offer one Saturday program per year for those spouses who work outside the home," said Mr. Smith. "Childcare is provided for those who need it for a Tuesday session with prior arrangements." To register to attend Heart Link Oct. 27, call the Airman and Family Readiness Center at 739-2747.