Heart Link planned for new military spouses Published Jan. 29, 2009 By Airman and Family Readiness Center TINKER AIR FORCE BASE, Okla., -- The Airman and Family Readiness Center is ready to help ease the stress that can easily overwhelm new military spouses. The center offers answers to spouse's questions through a program called Heart Link and the next event is planned for Feb. 17. "The goal of Heart Link is to strengthen military families through knowledge about military programs, agencies and the mission. This enhances overall mission readiness," said Jane Allen, director of Tinker's A&FRC. The Heart Link program is targeted at spouses who have been "in the military" for five or less years. Through the help of "seasoned spouses", those spouses who have been around the military for a while, new spouses get information on topics that range from customs and courtesies to deciphering the Leave and Earnings statement. According to Ms. Allen, "The program is kept fun by using an interactive game where spouses match scenarios to base agencies; we try to avoid typical military briefings to encourage spouses to interact while they learn." The orientation begins at 9 a.m. with an ice breaker game of bingo. Shortly after the ice breaker the 72nd Air Base Wing commander provides an overview of the broad mission at Tinker. For many of the spouses this is their first opportunity to see all that Tinker is responsible for. The commander also takes time to answer any questions that the spouse may have. Lunchtime provides attendees the opportunity to share experiences, and to continue to learn more about their roles as military spouses. This is a time when spouses can share contact information and start making those "lasting friendships." Tinker's Heart Link program also incorporates the "Tough Talk" video, which gives spouses ideas on how to open discussions with their significant others. As the day comes to an end each participant is presented a graduation certificate and coin by the 72nd ABW Commander, who reminds the group of their vital importance to the mission. "Heart Link is typically held on Tuesdays, and we offer one Saturday program for those spouses who work outside the home," said Ms. Allen. "Childcare is provided for those who need it for a Tuesday session with prior arrangements." To register to attend Heart Link on Feb. 17, call the A&FRC at 739-2747.